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Tamar began "I Have Cat" as a way to chronicle her life as a 30-something NYC singleton looking for love despite the complication of owning cat (s).
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5 Ways Cats Can Improve Your (Human) Relationships
In the past I’ve written about my belief that cats can provide women with insight into male behavior. Today’s post takes this concept a step further. Cat mom to two black cats, Emily Parker of Catological.com writes about five ways to improve your human relationships … Continue reading
Dating In The City (with cats)
It’s been a while since I’ve written about my dating life. Primarily because I haven’t had one. If there’s one thing this city seems to have an over supply of, it’s single women looking for a companion – or just … Continue reading
Posted in Cats, Relationships, Tamar
Tagged dating, dating with cats, NYC Living, relationships
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Day #7 How to Lose a Date in 7 Days
Your man or woman still there? Is this a good thing? If so he or she is obviously the right one for you – run to the closest city hall! Not a good thing? Perhaps these last few tips will … Continue reading
Posted in Cats, Relationships
Tagged Crazy Cat Lady, crazy cat man, dating, dating with cats, relationships
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Day #6: How How to Lose a Date in 7 Days
Okay so I know I started using the word “mate” in an effort to find a short way to express my idea. But I fear people mistook it as “partner” and not in that British “mate” way it was originally … Continue reading
Posted in Cats, Relationships
Tagged cattoo, Crazy Cat Lady, crazy cat man, dating, relationships, tattoo
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Day #5: How How to Lose a Mate (or Date) in 7 Days
Having been out for a run together, or perhaps just drinking in the sun all day, your date decides he or she will take a quick shower. Or not. Does your cat enjoy water like most of these seem to? … Continue reading
Posted in Cats, Relationships
Tagged breaking up, Crazy Cat Lady, crazy cat man, dating, dating with cats, relationships
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Day #4: How How to Lose a Mate in 7 Days
If you’ve missed Days #1 – #3 don’t fret, they’re still up on the home page so be sure to check them out. You do not want to miss any of these tips. On Day #4 we stay in the … Continue reading
Posted in Cats, Relationships
Tagged cat lady, cat man, Crazy Cat Lady, dating, relationships
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Day #3: How to Lose a Mate in 7 Days
Now it’s not my intention to insult anyone so I apologize if I have or do. But don’t forget, my blog is based on my aesthetic and the concept that cat items should blend into your decor..not take over… Day … Continue reading
Posted in Cats, Relationships
Tagged Crazy Cat Lady, crazy cat man, Dating wtih cats, relationships
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Day #2: How to Lose a Mate in 7 Days
Teach your cat that when someone goes to the bathroom and pulls down their pants, it makes for the perfect hiding place or alternatively, a fine cat hammock. For the record I tried in vain to find an example using … Continue reading
Posted in Cats, Relationships
Tagged Crazy Cat Lady, crazy cat man, dating, dating with cats, relationships
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Day #1: How to Lose a Mate in 7 Days
As promised, over the coming 7 days I’ll provide you with fool proof methods for ridding yourself of the man or woman in your life by leveraging your cat, or cat-themed items. You may use these bits of advice to … Continue reading
You May Be Dating Your Cat If…
You may think you don’t have a date today. You may be wrong. If you have a cat you may be – unbeknownst to you – be dating him or her. Here are 11 signs you might be dating your cat. … Continue reading
“Single and Living Fab” Calls Me An “It” Girl!
I was floored when journalist Jacque Reid, the woman behind SingleandLivingFab.com an online lifestyle magazine where the single woman is encouraged to live her best life, asked to feature me as one of her “Single and Living Fab” ladies! She … Continue reading
V-DAY Giveaway #10: A Very Sexy Bunny
This is it people our 10th and last V-DAY GIVEAWAY! Hope you’ve enjoyed the ride! Those who are squeamish may want to skip this post. It’s about sex. Well not sex exactly, but things people use during sex – if … Continue reading
Follow Your Gut (3 of 3)
If you remember dear (and very patient) readers, we last saw my date M__ laptop in hand, tasked with finding a place for dinner while I left to finish the laundry. Taking a deep breath I reentered my apartment. Stepping into … Continue reading
Dinner Take Two…sort of (2 of 3)
Readers, you might recall the last time I saw M___ he was making off with “my” Szechuan broccoli in garlic sauce (with brown rice). Before his great escape we’d made plans for dinner for the coming Sunday at 6pm. Well, … Continue reading
Posted in Relationships, Tamar
Tagged dating, food, humor, men, pescatarian, relationships, single, tamar, vegetarian
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Irish Eyes Are Smiling
WARNING: This post is not about cats and has no greater meaning. But, there are gratuitous hot guy pictures. You have been warned. Proceed with caution. I’ve never been a boy-crazy kind of girl. Not unless you count my mild … Continue reading
Expecting
My friend J___ holds Hollywood accountable for her singleton status. She believes movies like “Sleepless in Seattle,” “16 Candles” and “Serendipity” ruined her life. These films gave her comfort that love was hiding just around the corner and would reveal … Continue reading
Posted in Best of, Relationships, Tamar
Tagged cliches, Family, having babies, life, relationships, single, stereotype, tamar
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Up In The Air
Thanks to the worldwide information highway (had to get that in there!) I’ve had the pleasure of “meeting” pet-loving bloggers like Daniela Caride of “The Daily Tail.” On her recent trip back home to Brazil she was actually inspired (by … Continue reading
Posted in Relationships, Tamar
Tagged blind date, dating, men, relationships, tamar, The Daily Tail
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Cute Boys With Cats
I can’t believe it’s taken me this long to discover Cute Boys With Cats. As I’ve state quite publicly, I think the cat-loving man is more confident in himself and his sexuality (see “Wanted: A Man Who Loves Pussy (cats)”). Sadly, … Continue reading
They Walk Among Us
Today’s post is written by a colleague of mine who has the distinct pleasure of sitting next to me at work. Patrick’s a single 30-something year old living in NYC – without cats (for now). ************** When I first met Tamar she … Continue reading
Cat-man-do (not)
“Kippeeeee!” In an excited, glass-shattering voice I run toward him, hands spread out, ready to nab. He takes one look at me and high- tails it out of there. But I’m not discouraged! Like a female Pepe Le Pew, I … Continue reading
Posted in Best of, Cats, Relationships, Tamar
Tagged dating, humor, life, men, relationships, single
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