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Tamar began "I Have Cat" as a way to chronicle her life as a 30-something NYC singleton looking for love despite the complication of owning cat (s).
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Category Archives: Relationships
5 Ways Cats Can Improve Your (Human) Relationships
In the past I’ve written about my belief that cats can provide women with insight into male behavior. Today’s post takes this concept a step further. Cat mom to two black cats, Emily Parker of Catological.com writes about five ways to improve your human relationships … Continue reading
Dating In The City (with cats)
It’s been a while since I’ve written about my dating life. Primarily because I haven’t had one. If there’s one thing this city seems to have an over supply of, it’s single women looking for a companion – or just … Continue reading
Posted in Cats, Relationships, Tamar
Tagged dating, dating with cats, NYC Living, relationships
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Relationship Advice From A Cat
I’ve written in the past about how my cat Haddie became my third unplanned cat because she made a unilateral decision not to leave my home (check out the post HOW HADDIE CAME TO STAY – AKA THE SQUATTER, for … Continue reading
Day #7 How to Lose a Date in 7 Days
Your man or woman still there? Is this a good thing? If so he or she is obviously the right one for you – run to the closest city hall! Not a good thing? Perhaps these last few tips will … Continue reading
Posted in Cats, Relationships
Tagged Crazy Cat Lady, crazy cat man, dating, dating with cats, relationships
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Day #6: How How to Lose a Date in 7 Days
Okay so I know I started using the word “mate” in an effort to find a short way to express my idea. But I fear people mistook it as “partner” and not in that British “mate” way it was originally … Continue reading
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Tagged cattoo, Crazy Cat Lady, crazy cat man, dating, relationships, tattoo
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Day #5: How How to Lose a Mate (or Date) in 7 Days
Having been out for a run together, or perhaps just drinking in the sun all day, your date decides he or she will take a quick shower. Or not. Does your cat enjoy water like most of these seem to? … Continue reading
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Tagged breaking up, Crazy Cat Lady, crazy cat man, dating, dating with cats, relationships
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Day #4: How How to Lose a Mate in 7 Days
If you’ve missed Days #1 – #3 don’t fret, they’re still up on the home page so be sure to check them out. You do not want to miss any of these tips. On Day #4 we stay in the … Continue reading
Posted in Cats, Relationships
Tagged cat lady, cat man, Crazy Cat Lady, dating, relationships
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Day #3: How to Lose a Mate in 7 Days
Now it’s not my intention to insult anyone so I apologize if I have or do. But don’t forget, my blog is based on my aesthetic and the concept that cat items should blend into your decor..not take over… Day … Continue reading
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Tagged Crazy Cat Lady, crazy cat man, Dating wtih cats, relationships
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Day #2: How to Lose a Mate in 7 Days
Teach your cat that when someone goes to the bathroom and pulls down their pants, it makes for the perfect hiding place or alternatively, a fine cat hammock. For the record I tried in vain to find an example using … Continue reading
Posted in Cats, Relationships
Tagged Crazy Cat Lady, crazy cat man, dating, dating with cats, relationships
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Day #1: How to Lose a Mate in 7 Days
As promised, over the coming 7 days I’ll provide you with fool proof methods for ridding yourself of the man or woman in your life by leveraging your cat, or cat-themed items. You may use these bits of advice to … Continue reading
Cat Man Monday: Construction Worker Cat Daddy
If you’re an I HAVE CAT Facebook Fan (hurry up and “like” us already!), you’ve certainly seen these comments from one Amy Roach whenever I post a photo of Haddie. We have an I HAVE CAT first today, a … Continue reading
Cat Man Monday: Kitty Matchmaker
Today’s Cat Man Monday was submitted by Christina Pultrone about her Cat Man boyfriend Mark Graham. Not only is this a sweet story of how a cat by the name of Freida who brought these two of together, but Christina and … Continue reading
A Few of My Favorite Posts
I am beyond thrilled to announce that I HAVE CAT surpassed 23,000 Facebook likes last week! Given all the new fans, and everyone stuck at home in need of reading material thanks to Sandy, it seemed like a good time … Continue reading
Posted in Cats, Relationships, Tamar
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Carrie Bradshaw Had it Wrong
Carrie Bradshaw (if you have to ask skip this post) was right about a lot of things, but not when it came to the New York Sunday Times. “There are very few things this New Yorker loves as much … Continue reading
Cat Man Monday: Cat Dad in Uniform
Recently in honor of Father’s Day, I asked I HAVE CAT reader to send in photos of the Cat Men in their lives. A young man by the name Teyu sent the loveliest photo of himself in uniform (he is … Continue reading
The Bestest Mommy
If the photo below looks familiar – bed, curtain, vase, mug – there’s a reason for it. That brass-framed queen size bed was the setting for many a breakfast-in-bed growing up in the small town of Northfield, Minnesota. It was … Continue reading
Matchmaker, Matchmaker Make Me a Match…
In High School I played Tzeitel in our production of “Fiddler on The Roof.” She’s the one that gets married. Somehow my principal was also in the musical and at some point I sat on his lap. In retrospect, … Continue reading
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Hail to the V
Not that V, Valentines Day of course! Since I don’t have any 2-legged man stories this Valentines Day, I thought it would be fun to revisit posts from Valentine’s Days past. Unexpected Valentine (2011): On meeting single straight met … Continue reading
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Chateau du Chat
Now that we’ve got your 4-legged friends covered with our Tipsy Nip giveaway (you have until 12/12 to enter!), it’s time for the 2-leggeds. According to recent research findings cat owners were found to be less social, more introverted and … Continue reading
Furry Duty
Sorry to disappoint those of you who, upon reading the title of this post, hoped for a story of yet another a cat being called to jury duty (seems to occur way too frequently don’t you think?). Rather this is about my … Continue reading