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Tamar began "I Have Cat" as a way to chronicle her life as a 30-something NYC singleton looking for love despite the complication of owning cat (s).
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Never Say Never, Again.
The older I get, the more truth I find in adages I’ve dismissed as clichés my entire life. Don’t judge a book by its cover, Youth is wasted on the young, No good deed goes unpunished, You don’t know … Continue reading
2011: Refinements Not Resolutions
Today is the reason I’m not a huge fan of New Year’s resolutions. And by today I mean December 31st of any year. It’s the day you’re forced to remember what you resolved to do 12 months ago and be … Continue reading
Follow Your Gut (3 of 3)
If you remember dear (and very patient) readers, we last saw my date M__ laptop in hand, tasked with finding a place for dinner while I left to finish the laundry. Taking a deep breath I reentered my apartment. Stepping into … Continue reading
Dinner Take Two…sort of (2 of 3)
Readers, you might recall the last time I saw M___ he was making off with “my” Szechuan broccoli in garlic sauce (with brown rice). Before his great escape we’d made plans for dinner for the coming Sunday at 6pm. Well, … Continue reading
Posted in Relationships, Tamar
Tagged dating, food, humor, men, pescatarian, relationships, single, tamar, vegetarian
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Clueless in Manhattan
I’m not an avid “Curb Your Enthusiasm” fan, but I’ve enjoyed quite a few episodes. So when I heard Jeff Garlin and Susie Essman were the headliners at “Unleash Yourself! A Night of Comedy to Benefit the ASPCA” I bought … Continue reading
Irish Eyes Are Smiling
WARNING: This post is not about cats and has no greater meaning. But, there are gratuitous hot guy pictures. You have been warned. Proceed with caution. I’ve never been a boy-crazy kind of girl. Not unless you count my mild … Continue reading
Up In The Air
Thanks to the worldwide information highway (had to get that in there!) I’ve had the pleasure of “meeting” pet-loving bloggers like Daniela Caride of “The Daily Tail.” On her recent trip back home to Brazil she was actually inspired (by … Continue reading
Posted in Relationships, Tamar
Tagged blind date, dating, men, relationships, tamar, The Daily Tail
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Affair of the Heart
This week’s post is brought to you by guest blogger Debbie Glovatsky, a.k.a. Glogirly, the voice behind her blogging cat, Katie. In her blog “Glogirly: Tails Of A Cat And Her Girl,” Katie writes of life, love and catnip with a sarcastic … Continue reading
Posted in Cats, Relationships
Tagged cat affair, cat blog, cats, cheating cat, dog lover, Glogirly, humor, men
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Is My Cat Trying to Kill Me?
This week’s post is written by guest blogger Nancy Mauro whose first novel “New World Monkeys” was released by Random House last month. Nancy’s relationship with the feline species is precarious at best but I think you will enjoy her … Continue reading
LITTER BOX: A SPACE ODYSSEY
One of the most unique challenges a New York City cat-owner faces is the question of where to put the litter box. Mudrooms, basements and laundry rooms often used to stash the necessary monstrosity are not part of our vernacular. … Continue reading
Posted in Best of, Cats, Relationships, Reviews
Tagged apartment living, cats, Litter box, litter robot, men, style
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The 2nd of 9 Lives
When I last saw my physician a year ago I recall joking that all I needed to fulfill the stereotype of the single NYC woman cliché was a cat. One year and two cats later I lay naked and shivering … Continue reading
Posted in Best of, Cats, Relationships, Tamar
Tagged cliches, dating, foster cats, humor, men, single, stereotype, unemployed
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The Cat’s Meow
“There’s just something about him,“ my friend Nan muses. “Something sexy about the way carries himself. That nonchalant come-hither look he gives.” “Not traditionally good looking.” I add, “Inarguably on the chubby side. Like a sweet comforting teddy bear you … Continue reading
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Tagged cats, dating, humor, men, stereotypes
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Cat-man-do (not)
“Kippeeeee!” In an excited, glass-shattering voice I run toward him, hands spread out, ready to nab. He takes one look at me and high- tails it out of there. But I’m not discouraged! Like a female Pepe Le Pew, I … Continue reading
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Tagged dating, humor, life, men, relationships, single
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