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Tamar began "I Have Cat" as a way to chronicle her life as a 30-something NYC singleton looking for love despite the complication of owning cat (s).
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Category Archives: Relationships
Cat Man Monday: The $50,000 Cat
This story was submitted by IHC reader Rena about her Cat Man husband David. When I met David in 1981 he was not a cat person. He’d had a dog growing up – good old Laddie – but remained petless … Continue reading
A (Fur) Son’s Gift
As a fur mom on Mother’s Day, I can’t help but feel I deserve breakfast in bed too (though some have warned me to be careful what I wish for!). As with two-legged children, our pets enrich our lives and … Continue reading
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I Am…Dog?
Somewhere in Beverly Hills “I know you like cats, “said my client P___, “but you’re actually more dog-like.” She made this observation from the kitchen of a gaudy Beverly Hills mansion. We were on a commercial shoot. “You’re so energetic … Continue reading
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Single White Feline
“I understand why some of my friends are single but I just don’t get why I am.” This statement is made by Jane, an attractive, seemingly well-adjusted 29 year old Brit who is the subject of the hysterical BBC mockumentary … Continue reading
Unexpected Valentine
Ah, it’s that time of year again. The time when restaurants overcharge love birds and single women either stay in drinking vats of wine or go out in large groups to “take back the night.” Last year, because of my … Continue reading
Follow Your Gut (3 of 3)
If you remember dear (and very patient) readers, we last saw my date M__ laptop in hand, tasked with finding a place for dinner while I left to finish the laundry. Taking a deep breath I reentered my apartment. Stepping into … Continue reading
Dinner Take Two…sort of (2 of 3)
Readers, you might recall the last time I saw M___ he was making off with “my” Szechuan broccoli in garlic sauce (with brown rice). Before his great escape we’d made plans for dinner for the coming Sunday at 6pm. Well, … Continue reading
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Tagged dating, food, humor, men, pescatarian, relationships, single, tamar, vegetarian
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Of Meals and Men (1 of 3)
Is my love of good food so intense it could sabotage a potential relationship? Sure it sounds ridiculous, but a recent dating experience led me to examine the connection between man, woman and food. I met M___, a single lawyer … Continue reading
On Cats and Singleness
Today’s post is brought to you by Tom Cox, the author of “Under The Paw” and “Talk to the Tail.” He’s a (newly) single cat-loving Brit. While his books are not yet available on Amazon.com, they CAN be purchased for … Continue reading
Male Cat-Owners “In”
As Heidi Klum says on Project Runway, “One day you’re in, the next day you’re out.” According to Us Weekly guys with cats – along with pre-dating and mash-up lit (huh?) – are IN.” Jane McCulley, Animal Planet pet trendologist (cool job!) says … Continue reading
Irish Eyes Are Smiling
WARNING: This post is not about cats and has no greater meaning. But, there are gratuitous hot guy pictures. You have been warned. Proceed with caution. I’ve never been a boy-crazy kind of girl. Not unless you count my mild … Continue reading
Father of the Cat Lady (s)
I know I’m a day late for a Fathers Day posting but hoping you’ll cut me some slack as I did spend it with my Daddy! My sister and I were fortunate enough to spend the weekend with … Continue reading
Apart(men)t
Knowingly or not, we all start with a wish-list. In a safe neighborhood, close to work, southern light, hardwood floors, a full bath with tub, maybe a small study. A patio would be nice, but it’s gotta be under $1,700 … Continue reading
Expecting
My friend J___ holds Hollywood accountable for her singleton status. She believes movies like “Sleepless in Seattle,” “16 Candles” and “Serendipity” ruined her life. These films gave her comfort that love was hiding just around the corner and would reveal … Continue reading
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Tagged cliches, Family, having babies, life, relationships, single, stereotype, tamar
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Up In The Air
Thanks to the worldwide information highway (had to get that in there!) I’ve had the pleasure of “meeting” pet-loving bloggers like Daniela Caride of “The Daily Tail.” On her recent trip back home to Brazil she was actually inspired (by … Continue reading
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Tagged blind date, dating, men, relationships, tamar, The Daily Tail
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Cute Boys With Cats
I can’t believe it’s taken me this long to discover Cute Boys With Cats. As I’ve state quite publicly, I think the cat-loving man is more confident in himself and his sexuality (see “Wanted: A Man Who Loves Pussy (cats)”). Sadly, … Continue reading
Well-Groomed, Plays Nicely With Others
Today’s post written by my friend Joyce, an art director and holistic health coach in NYC. It’s not difficult to see how the economy has affected the amount of abandoned kitties out there in need of a home. It became … Continue reading
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Tagged cats, foster cats, unemployed
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Mindful Purring
Today’s post written by guest blogger Daniela Caride* I’ve been falling behind on my duties lately. When that happens, my spiritual practice is the first to suffer the consequences. So today I sit down to meditate in the early morning … Continue reading
Felines and Valentines
As some of you recall I made two New Year’s resolutions this year, reasoning that posting them in the blog sphere I’d somehow be held accountable. While I think I’ve been better at resolution A) talking to people on the … Continue reading
Married – With Cat (s)
Today’s post is brought to you guest blogger Keri Blair* People have pondered, probed and just plain asked, “How are you married with three cats?” I agree it’s quite a feat considering the stigma around cat ownership being on-staff for … Continue reading